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Learning to See


When I am looking through the lens of a camera I am often struck by what is really there. When I looked into this shop window, my eyes didn’t register the reflections of the building across the street, or the trucks and cars passing by. But it all was there as you can see by this photo which [...]

Inspiring Views


There is a beautiful oak tree right outside my office window - and that itself is a blessing. When I began working here the blinds were always down and it wasn’t until the days began to get shorter that I began opening them up to let more light in. That’s when I realised I could [...]

Petals


Petals
Even when you tear its petals off one after another,
the rose keeps laughing and doesn’t bend in pain.
“Why should I be afflicted because of a thorn?
It is the thorn which taught me how to laugh.”
Whatever you lost through fate,
be certain that it saved you from pain.
A Sheikh was asked: “What is Sufism?”
He said: “To feel [...]

Morning Beauty


I have a Kwan Yin statue by my front door. I would love this statue anywhere, but by my front door it sets the energy and the tone for my home: calm, peaceful and creative. The first thing I saw when I came out of my bedroom on this gloriously sunny fall day, was Kwan Yin bathed [...]

Module 1 - Feng Shui Certification Course


Today I put the finishing touches on my new Feng Shui Course. After months of planning, and then hours of recording lessons, I now have a tangible result: Module 1: Bagua Map - Path for Living.
It seems fitting that I finished on Thanksgiving weekend. I am truly grateful for so many things concerning this project. One thing I am giving thanks for [...]

Joy is Where it’s At


Learning New Things, Part Two: Conscious Incompetence

This second stage in learning represents a turning point. Conscious incompetence is when you begin to grasp the nuances of that new thing you are learning…and realise where you are with it: the parts that flow easily and naturally and the aspects that are more challenging or difficult. It is [...]

Feng Shui, Inner Knowing and Learning New Things


Learning New Things, Part One: Unconscious Incompetence
 
Last weekend I happened upon a summer festival where there had been a juried plein-air art show. I only caught the end part as the awards were being announced. The adjudicator was explaining that the pieces they awarded prizes to were those that had captured the energy and spirit of the festival. [...]

More on Vacations


My colleague Neshi Lokotz wrote a wonderful piece earlier in the spring on the Where Energy Flows blog about what to do when your home away from home doesn’t feel so good. I smiled when I read parts of  Feng Shui Teachers on Vacation. Neshi wrote: “We dismantled the single bed and it moved between the fire place [...]

The Energy of Vacations


Have you ever visited a different city or town and loved it so much you decided to go back again to recapture that memory — only to be disappointed? More often than not return visits are disappointing because each time is a totally different experience.
Every place has its own vibration - the energy and [...]

Riding the Waves


Life has been throwing the bigger questions of life at me lately: Decisions about what path to take and whether decisions I have made are good ones.
Actually if often feels to me more like riding the waves than choosing a path. One can ride a wave with grace and awareness, or be in for a [...]